Loving Kindness and Tantric Massage

Love seems to be a bit of a curse word in this very modern society. It is like if we admit that we are in love or that we love someone we have lost some bet or even some of our manliness in the process. Doing things with love means that you care and caring means attachment, right? Well sort of but not entirely.

If there is one thing I learned (and I have learned a lot) with tantric massages is that love is not what we tend to think it is. We have been taught that love means commitment, attachment and that caring means that we cannot let go of someone and that if we are going to have a one night stand or even a friend with benefits there are all these rules and regulations to follow to avoid ‘catching feelings.’ You see, this thing that I learned through tantric massages is that you can love and care for someone even if it is just for that night. Having sex with someone, just like having a tantric massage, requires there to be closeness, for you to feel completely taken by this person and their little quirks. You are going to be exposing yourself physically to them and also you are going to trust them to admire and to help you achieve one of the purest things two people can achieve together, ecstasy. This, believe it or not, requires you to care, to want to love this person and t want to be loved by this person. It is not wrong or needy but it can lead to much better orgasms in the long run.

Tantric massages truly make this clear. Your tantrica will help you use your emotions rather than hide them, so that in the end you are getting your needs met one hundred percent and so is your chosen partner. Just because you love for that moment does not mean forever so instead of being scared of your emotions use them and see how much more amazing all your intimate experience can become.